IT ALL STARTED WITH ASHES AND DUST.
When my former husband disclosed his longstanding addictions to pornography and alcohol, which ultimately resulted in his betrayal, my world shattered instantly.
I felt so alone
like nobody would understand what I was going through.
I was faced with two options:
I could either be consumed by bitterness and resentment, let his choices erode my sense of self-worth, shut my heart off and never trust again…
OR
I could choose to lean in, do the hard work, and heal.
I remember the day my world imploded.
i chose to heal.
Recovering from betrayal trauma ended up being the best worst thing to happen to me because it taught me skills that transformed the relationship I have with myself and others, for the better. Hitting rock bottom in my marriage left me broken and desperate enough to dig deep and begin my lifelong journey of healing. It gave me the gift of perspective that I now hope to share with you.
This isn’t a place where we do shallow and superficial.
This is a safe place to be vulnerable, and dig deep into the real stuff beneath the surface.
I wish you and I could sit down together, face to face on the couch after all the kids are in bed, so you could get everything off of your chest to someone who actually gets it. Like, really gets it.
I want you to feel seen, understood and validated.
Most importantly, I want you to know
you’re not alone,
no matter what you’re going through.
I’m so glad you’re here and that you’re choosing to heal and better yourself each day.
✨ WHAT I'M ABOUT ✨
Real talk about hard stuff, reading ALL the books, healthy boundaries, less STUFF & a life full of blank space
WHAT I'M NOT ABOUT
Small talk, hustle culture, material things that don’t matter, busy-ness as a badge of honor
